Finally Myspace is Working...

I finally got my myspace working again so I'm back on my countdown grind!!! BIG PLANS AHEAD for ya boy though!!! ZX is about to just takeover UTA!!! Alpha week coming up. I still have a lot of work to do to finish the year strong but I'm going to make it work!! Long grind ahead...in the mean time I present...

A BLAST FROM THE PAST

As I look at my clock and see that it says 12:14 AM I am realizing that I probably won't finish this blog until deep into the night and I don't care because I honestly feel like I had to release my thoughts unto my audience. To some people this may be a sensitive subject but the most sensitive subjects make the most interesting ones. I know I was not suppose to talk to y'all again till next week but I just had to get this one off my chest.

Today I am here to talk to y'all about the past and how it always comes back to kick you in the ass, especially when it comes to this relationship thing. It always seems like those ex-lovers of ours always try to come back in our lives right after we get over them and right before we receive our blessing. I'm a man that believes that when God calls, you should come running. But it just seems like when God calls and we deny his call we always end up coming short in the blessing column.

Now ladies please don't come down on me for what I'm about to say because I am a male and that is the only perspective that I can speak on this from. In the past couple of years I have seen relationships blossom, struggle, and sometimes just come crashing down. I blame most of this on the gateway drug of relationships.

I'm pretty sure that most of you are asking "what is the gateway drug of any relationship?" In my personal opinion I honestly think that when anybody tries to bring in any unresolved problems from an old relationship than your asking for trouble. Why does it seem like right when you are getting over that old flame they always want to waddle their ass back in your life? The answer to that is simple...

The biggest problem with men and women these days that tend to date under them is that they don't recognize their own worth. If your a straight A student, well on your way to college you don't need to be dating some wannabe thug that can't even take care of themselves.

When I say recognize your own worth I don't mean how much is in your pocket I mean how much can you bring to the table of relationships. If your ass is carrying all the work load then you are with the wrong person. When you get into a relationship if you feel like the person you are with isn't going to bring the same amount to the table than what you are than it's time for your ass to move on.

I say that to say this...Women! Stop trying to change these lame, ass, so-called men that ain't doing nothing with their lives. If they haven't changed for themselves what makes you think they are going to change for you! Be serious the dudes that these women are falling in love with these days are pitiful.

I've seen great women with a lot going on in their lives basically waste valuable years at a time with a dude that doesn't even want to treat them right. Now I feel this way because I'm one of the good guys that got overlooked. It's so funny to me how women can ask for a great guy but they are so blinded by the sorry one that they are with that when a good guy comes around they miss their blessing.

Now fast forward with me for a second as I try to break down why these people try to come back into the good guys and gals lives. Okay a couple of months maybe even a year has passed since you have talked to that ex-lover and it seems as if every thing is going great. Ring, ring, ring!!! Guess who it is? That tired, ass excuse for an ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. STOP!!! Now if you have been keeping in contact with this ex than you have already messed yourself over, because when you fall in love with a person and were never friends to begin with than you can't keep in contact with this person because you haven't given yourself time to detach yourself from this person.

As I move on...here they are talking about how they need you back into they life and how it would be nice to get back together. STOP!!! Now if this person has made a serious change and y'all didn't end on bad terms than go for it. But if they still up to the same BS that they were up to before y'all ended it and/or y'all had a bad break up then you need to leave them in the dust.

But to sum it all up in a few sentences I'm just going to say this...the main reason the rejects try to come back into your life is because they realize what your worth and they look at it like "maybe they can get my life together," when they should be saying, "maybe I should get my life together."

The best way to counter this is to be able to recognize what your own worth is. There are to many good people out there dating bad ones instead of good ones. Myself for instance, I never knew what I was until I started to recognize the way women reacted towards me. Then when women started to tell me how I was such a great dude and how I wasn't like any other dude they met. But not only were they saying it, they were showing it through their actions. At this point I realized that I can't let anybody try to come into my party and ruin it.

You guys may not recognize your worth in this regard but you have to find that confidence within yourself to let these people know that you refused to be walked on. Never let anyone come back into your life and walk all over you. If a old flame should come into your life spit a couple of words at you and you change your mind on how you feel about them than you should seriously re-evaluate your worth. I say this because no one person should run your life with just a few words unless it's God.

What I'm saying may be hard to swallow or to do but for those of you that are good people and do want the most out of life don't settle with an old flame knowing they couldn't get on your level even if God came and gave them a jump start.

Now there were a lot of missed points in this blog so don't jump down my spine because none of this was thought out it all just happened because I felt something moving through me. Damn!!! It's 3:38 AM!!! I must really love doing this cause a girl couldn't keep me up this late!

So long for now and I'll catch y'all next time for another segment of...

WHEN YOUR READY TO STOP DRAWING CIRCLES